How to Get Rid of Jealousy

The green eyed monster has kicked us all at one time or another in our life. We want what we cannot have, we want to be what someone else is, we want to be the only one in someone else’s life. When it hits we aren’t always sure how to control it. There are ways to avoid and deal with jealousy so our heart does not break and our blood does not continue to boil.

Sheer Willpower

By using sheer willpower you can rid yourself of jealousy. You set your goal and tell yourself it’s not worth the waste of a good emotion. This is hard and it takes a lot of practice, but with time and hard work you can control it. Once you learn to use willpower in getting rid of jealousy you’ll be able to use it for just about anything else in your life. Willpower to the people!

Distract Yourself

This is a great tool for ridding yourself of jealousy. Find a hobby, find a friend, find someone else to love. Once you know the jealousy is not going to change anything in your life you can find something else that makes you feel great. If you are looking at jealousy through the eyes of a love lost or gone wrong to someone else then it’s time to find a replacement. The replacement does not have to be permanent, just fun for the moment!

Change Your Choices

Changing your choices and outlook on what you want can rid you of jealousy for what you cannot or do not have. If you want a large home in a big city and it’s just not happening then look at a different lifestyle you might have thought about in your daydreams. Have you ever wanted to live in a mountain cabin or run a grand hotel on a beautiful island? Find a way to get as close to that dream as you can.

Another way to change the choice is to figure out a way to get what you want! If money is the tool of getting your current dream find yourself a place where the rich and pampered hang out. Become one of them on the hunt and as you fall in love you can share in all their capital and rented happiness! Money may not buy happiness, but it helps to buy moments or even a lifestyle that will make you happy.

Now that you have three different way to get rid of jealousy. Go out there and find the best way for you. It’s forget it, avoid it or grab whatever it takes to make it happen!